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Speaking Human: The Hardest Conversations You’ll Have with Yourself

We all know the frustration of communication that misses the mark—saying “yes” when you meant “no,” retreating into silence when your voice could have made a difference, or over-explaining without knowing why. What if these moments weren’t about confidence at all, but about the deeper stories and emotional patterns that silently guide your every word?

In Speaking Human: The Hardest Conversations You’ll Have with Yourself, award-winning keynote speaker and author Dr. Damini Chawla takes you beneath the surface of communication to uncover the hidden beliefs, cultural expectations, and personal wounds that shape how you show up. Drawing on her own lived experiences—from navigating cultural disconnection and professional burnout to redefining success and belonging—Damini reveals how self-awareness transforms not only the conversations you have with others, but also the relationship you have with yourself.

Blending authentic storytelling, reflective exercises, and practical frameworks, this book will help you:

• Recognize the internal stories and scripts shaping your voice.

• Understand why some conversations feel so hard—and how to approach them with clarity and courage.

• Speak with self-care instead of self-protection, building trust, truth, and transformation.

With warmth, wit, and wisdom, Speaking Human is both a mirror and a guide. It challenges you to look inward before you speak outward, reminding you that your ability to lead, connect, and thrive depends on the conversations you’re willing to have with yourself. Because when you speak human—with clarity, courage, and care—you don’t just change what you say. You change who you are, how you connect, and the impact you leave behind.

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Dr. Damini Chawla is an award-winning keynote speaker, TEDx presenter, clinical dentist and trusted communication coach to leaders across Asia and beyond. She is the founder of Speaking Human—a global platform dedicated to courageous communication that fosters trust, authenticity, and psychological safety.
Raised across India, China, and Australia, Damini grew up as a third-culture kid learning how words could divide and connect. Her own experiences of displacement, identity loss, anxiety, and reinvention fuel the work she does today: helping others stop performing and start connecting.
Named the #1 Speaker at the Asia Professional Speakers Convention 2024, Damini has spoken for global organizations, diplomatic missions and educational institutions. Her sessions blend humour, science, and lived experience to move audiences from laughter to transformation in every session.
Through Speaking Human, she offers:

– Keynotes that inspire clarity, courage, and connection in high-stakes moments.
– Workshops & Facilitation that build psychological safety, belonging, and resilience in teams.
– Executive Coaching to help leaders strengthen their presence and influence.
– Emceeing & Moderation for conferences and panels of up to 15,000, where she creates energy, flow, and connection.

Damini lives in Singapore with her husband and two daughters. When she isn’t on stage or with clients, she’s exploring food, writing, and finding inspiration in the conversations that shape our lives.

This book, Speaking Human: The Hardest Conversations You’ll Have With Yourself, is both a memoir and a manifesto—a guide for anyone ready to speak with courage, clarity, and conviction.

PRAISE/ENDORSEMENTS:-

· “Speaking Human is an uplifting call to action. With personal stories and powerful truths, Damini guides you to have conversations that truly matter – with courage, compassion, and great care – first with yourself, and then with those you love and lead.”

– Ron Kaufman, New York Times Best Selling Author of Uplifting Service

· “True strength isn’t just physical—it’s finding your voice and using it with courage. Damini’s Speaking Human shows us how to do exactly that.” – Natalie Dau, Guinness World Record Holder, Athlete, Project 1000

· “This book will change a lot of lives.” – Michelle Koh, Co-founder SAYA Agency

· “As a coach, I’ve seen again and again that the leaders who create the biggest impact are those willing to do the inner work first – do the inner work, and you’ll transform how you lead, work and live. Speaking Human brings this truth to life with honesty and heart.” – Cathy Johnson, PCC, Authentic Leadership Coach

Year

2025

Format

Paperback

Author

Dr. Damini Chawla

Publisher

Dr. Damini Chawla