About the Author:-
Boon is a self-declared “Existential Experimentalist” – someone who actively questions, probes and redefines what it means to be human in a constantly evolving world.
Just like the mythical cat with nine different lives, he aspires to experience as many different identities as possible, shedding himself of any fixed role but integrating all that he could learn. He has been a scholar, an entrepreneur (in HR space), a corporate leader (with Singapore Airlines), a business consultant, a certified trainer, a whisky connoisseur, an M&A advisor, and now an author.
And just like the ephemeral butterfly that flutters around to sip nectar without knowing its pollen-bearing destiny, he believes he is here to fulfil his life mission simply by striving on whatever that stirs his heart. Thus, after being thrown off the last mountain – by busting a business – he now lives to help others to craft a meaningful life.
He currently runs a social project under the banner of thecatandbutterfly.com, with a mission to bring people from different background around the world to share the common stories of humanity. Producing these various books is one of the paths to fulfilling this mission.
Testimonials:-
· “This book is a gentle revolution. Boon doesn’t lecture, he invites. Every page is a pause, a breath, a mirror. I frequently stopped and breathed to contemplate the ideas. I didn’t find answers there, I found better questions. And in them, I found myself.” –Walid Aboulnaga Founder, NAFAS Journey
· “To think is to confront oneself. Through the multitude of things we encounter, we are granted moments of introspection. This book offers just such an opportunity – and it is timely and urgent.” – Minako Suematsu Chairperson & Publisher of the Japan Times, Ltd.
· “Reading this felt like a spiritual retreat in written form. The questions are deceptively simple, yet they lead you to places you may have forgotten or never dared to explore. Truly beautiful!” – Karsten Warrink CEO, Ambermedia President, Entrepreneurs Organisation, Europe Bridge
· “As a comedian, I’ve made a career out of observing life. This book made life observes me back. Like a good joke: the set up sounds ordinary, but the punchline lands deep in the soul – and just uncomfortable enough to be truly healing.” – Harith Iskander Celebrity Comedian/Leadership & Culture Advisor Pemalyst Sn Bhd
· “This book is indeed a candle to those navigating the brave and often messy path of personal growth. It doesn’t shout, it shines—offering warmth, light, and direction without prescribing a one-size-fits-all route. The author’s voice is both compassionate and clear, inviting readers to deepen their self-awareness and align their inner and outer lives. Packed with timeless parables, distilled wisdom, and carefully chosen quotes from gurus and sages across the ages, it serves as a spiritual companion as much as a guide. In a world full of noise, this book encourages reflection, congruence, and authenticity. It’s a gentle yet persistent reminder for anyone committed to evolving—and evolving consciously. If you’ve ever longed to answer “how are you?” with honesty and peace, this book might help you get there.” – Will Scott Founder & Author, The Culture Fix
· “Timely and timeless message for the self, which can be a catalyst to heal the divide of today’s world.” – Tze-Co President, Entrepreneurs Organisation, Malaysia
· “Deep, simple, and alive with questions that invite thought and presence, this book gently guides you to listen within and explore further.” – David Bartholomeusz Serial Entrepreneur Founder of Entrepreneurial Leadership Journey
· “Radically honest. I especially love the quotes and stories peppered throughout. They reinforce the lessons powerfully!” – Bubu Andres Co-founder, Candy Corner Phils, BID Holdings Group
· “I truly resonate with all the core values! The best gift we could give ourselves is time to discover the life path that God has led us to as we are fearfully and wonderfully made. The key is to journey it with faith, hope, and love, which is the theme of this book.” – Charmain Faith Tan Faith-driven entrepreneur Forbes-under-30 entrepreneur award winner
· “A simple yet thought provoking guide that explores the most fascinating topic today, which is our true self!” – Virata Gamany Executive Director, CSIPROP
· “A quietly powerful guide that helps you listen to the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten to hear.” – Rohit Bhattacharye Founder, WeaverWorks
· “Profoundly human and spiritually grounded—this book is both mirror and medicine.” – Maurik Griep Founder, Verden Professionals
· “Boon’s gentle approach illuminates blind spots of oneself, guiding readers to authenticity, presence and renewed purpose. A trusted companion for frequent reflection and holistic living.” – Neo Co-founder, Geniebook
· “Kind and gentle, with profound insights into life – I wish I had such a companion earlier!” – Willie Lee Managing Director, Big 3 Media Group
· “A transformative companion that guides you to reconnect with your authentic self. Each question is a vibrant spark, igniting awareness and inviting you to embrace the full spectrum of your emotional landscape with courage and love.” – Nisha Purushothaman Coach & mentor
· “We all navigate life trying to become better versions of ourselves – better parents, partners, or friends – while silently wrestling with the weight of expectations. In Asian culture, I was taught to prioritise others, often suppressing my own needs. The line between my heart’s voice and my mind’s logic blurs. Which one do I trust? This book is a compass for this struggle. Reading this feels like dialoguing with a wise, empathetic friend. The reflections here are more than just exercises; they’re bridges to self-trust, inviting clarity and courage to honour both our responsibilities and our truth. Boon guides readers to reconnect with what matters by nurturing the quiet strength we already hold. This book is a lifeline for anyone yearning to live authentically. Profoundly moving and deeply practical.” – Leon Teoh Venture capitalist & business mentor
